LIFE UN-LIMITED

I think everything in life is art, what you do, how you dress, the way you love someone, way you talk, your smile &  your personality. What you believe in and all your dreams. The way you drink your tea, how you decorate your home or party, your grocery list, the food you make, how your writing looks and even the way you feel.
LIFE IS ART !
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How you project not the outward but the inward significance of things, how you convince yourself to have just one more cupcake, how you cut vegetables using either a chopping board/ kitchen table or a plate, how you tie your hair up, how you comfort someone with a joke or a serious solution, how you gift someone , how you wrap your gift, how you say thank you and sorry without words, how you convey your love by the way you look at a person, how you drive with your favourite flipflops on, the way you allow someone whos honking like a retard overtake with a smile on your face, how you love listening to stupid songs on high volumes when people around pass you "your weird looks", how you gossip about a person even if he/she has lost all significance in your life even after a decade, when you talk nonsense and it makes perfect sense to some people, how you can open your heart to the world even when nobody really cares, when you keep making some beautiful things and still no one cares, how you handle the limelight , how you answer the questions for the times you failed, when you look at a happy couple and smile at them , how you keep your cool when your family is acting unreasonable around you, when you tease your friends non-chalantly about a haphazard date they once had,  the way you avoid someone's intense stare, how you try to catch someones eye, the way your perfume lingers around even after you have left,when you think you can change the world, how you actually go out and change the world a little everyday, how you crinkle up your nose when you look at me like am nuts, how your dimples appear when you give a carefree smile, the noise your laughter makes, the way you dance on your favourite song, the sideglance you give to check on me,  how you don't treat me like am ordinary, how you treat me like am special, when you try to finish some odd jobs before the microwave beeps, how you carry a piece of my heart around, the way you rub ur nose unknowingly, love how my soul follows you like a shadow, how you invite your neighbours for a cup of tea when you know they are lonely, when you hug a person who is crying, when you can dream a person in colours no one could ever imagine, how you spend the days when your heart breaks, when you put the broken pieces together and make the most magnificient picture of your heart, the way you surrender to someone, the way you look at your favourite bakery's display window, what you wish when you see a shooting star, what you do to stop the tears from overflowing when your best friend is trying to be strong,  how you give in to chocolate addictions, how you hide your chocolate from others, how you understand when I need my space, having more fun with best friends than it makes sense for them to be having, how you have two souls living in one body, saving ur favourite chocolate from an assorted box, how you can watch a dog chasing its tail for hours together and be amused, the faces you make when you find a person driving at the correct speed but slower than you annoying, the way mountains can uplift your whole being, how beaches excite you, way you plan your trips, dressing up your eyes with make-up, going over the top with make-up, ranting about your indecisiveness on whether to use peach/pink blush, how you sign language to a person across the room when someone is sleeping, how you can communicate with friends with just face expressions, sometimes just with rolling of your eyes, the colours you pick up to gift someone, smiles you pass at strangers when you notice something goofy they did unintentionally , how you pick up a person when the world has let them down, how you can make someone feel completely at ease in the first meeting, how very lonely you can make a person feel in the first meeting, when you save ticket stubs to remember a trip or movie, how you make your own set of rules for your life, trying to explain the political scenario to your maid, how you make a mental note of a cute café to be visited, which you pass by, how you play with children, how you laugh when your parents taunt you, how you make-up for those actions for them, how stupid you are and how stupid things excite you, how many days don't make sense to you, how a day completely changes you as a person, how you make someones purpose in life your own place of soul searching, how you flip your hair when it falls in your eyes, how you know how to extract the exact expression from your pets using KEYWORDS, how you remove time from the busiest schedule to watch your favourite soap, how you sing along with advertisements, when you wonder what another person living on the other side of the planet is doing while you are star gazing, how you just hate a person for no reason just cause they once wore a hideous pair of shoes, how you make friends with your vegetable vendor and extort him to give you the best fruits & veggies, how you strike up conversation with a person in the lift based on the brand of butter they picked up..............................................



P.S. - I'll just keep adding more life to the above cause there is no real end here.
I think the best thing for a person is to be their imperfect self , keep the unadulterated rawness intact.

I THINK I FALL IN LOVE A LITTLE BIT WITH ANYONE WHO SHOWS ME THEIR SOUL.
THIS WORLD IS SO GUARDED AND FEARFUL.
I APPRECIATE RAWNESS SO MUCH

It's SO RARE !
 

How To Lose Your Cellphone and other things and not your mind!!

Well they say that some people have a curse on them!


Before i forget n memories start fading away I want to jot down the 4 epic ways in which i lost my cellphones!!!


something so dear--u cant imagine LIFE without this little device now---my latest is my BLACKBERRY CURVE--which I didn lose yet-but I did damage the screen in a comic way!


I dressed up and wore a long white jacket over the nice tee n jeans-as if the tee n jeans werent good enuff.THERES A PICTURE ATTACHED FOR YOUR EYES from the day this happened for visual effects!!!


Jacket was flowing like upto my knees n to find it on that particular----- day--- from all the huge collection/pile of clothes that I have----my eyes had to fall on that "jacket".Hmmm remember the curse I was talking about hahahaha yeah it was working its way!




After dropping my aunt home from her routine check up while returning to my place I parked my WagonR(blush),got down to buy some idli/dosa batter--imagining the amazing CHAI n DOSA am gonna relish just a few minutes away with a smile on my face. That was of course was an evil smile because I keep on promising myself to DIET at every evil thought of food that I have.I returned to my wagon with joy filled in my heart and a song on my lips,pressed the unlock door symbol on my key-which is a very distracting almost embarrassing sound and only because of that I jumped in the drivers seat almost flew in-before I see people giving me that "I AM ANNOYED WITH THIS SOUND LOOK" and pulled teh door to close.BAM!!!


For some strange reason it did not close n I was like aargghh tried to pull it again with a lttlle more strength this time round.Then it dawned upon me and that sinking feeling took over.I slowly looked at the pink plastic flower pot stuck on teh dashboard--which had dancing irritating flowers-which supposed to be in my friend Supriyas car anyway---to check if my cell was beside it---NO NO NO it wasnt, where was my cell my new blackberry CURVE ???? I was harrowed and torture by KAINAZ SAHER to buy one, it was my latest pride n joy.Trust me am not a gadget freak but i was conned into wanting TO buy this one.


Next step was checking the pockets of my oh so long jacket -------it wasnt in my left pocket --nope !!


I put my hand in my right pocket which was hanging outside the door frame and almost all nerves were on the edge --slowly pulled it out---and i said lets check ...........................Alas screen was slammed and damaged badly. I tried to dismantle and restart hoping for some change in the white screen with a coloured line--which I must say had some beautiful rainbow like hues-nope i couldnt really read!!


I spent 1400 bucks to get it repaired. But hey at least it was repairable damage ;)








Now here are some short stories-----




1st time when i lost my cell-@mac d-------i thot il block a table by keeping my sling bag on ta table -how wrong was i?


While we(Rohan n me) were standing in the line for food--glorious food--hungry and deciding from all the many options of having something stuffed between sawdust (the macburgers r so not appealing after these many years) some hardworking staff spotted an unattended bag-MY BAG- and very deligently put in the section marked "LOST PROPERTY".


Sweet na? Then when I did find the bag--my cell was not found and only my cell was missing from my bag.It was a cute Nokia model let me remember aah 8250 -n i loved the smiley icons it had.My wallet and the cash in it didnt amount to the price I paid for this phone.


2nd time i lost it while doing my wedding shopping-i thot i left it at the Millionare juhu --yayya ROHAN was with me again.Well me and my brother were in one car -I tried calling my cell n it was ringing so I thot that it definitely is forgotten at the store.We told others that we taking a U turn and will be back in 10!


We reached the same exact spot where we had parked before and I got in the car. While approaching the parking spot my brother N me just exchanged a thought and laughed about it--WE SAW SOMETHING ON THE ROAD AND THOUGHT ITS MY PHONE- n laughed something like this "HEEHEEE" giggled actually-and parked the car.There was some wierd noise at the halt.I got down and rushed towards the store--the separation was becoming unbearable by now---happy thoughts of being reunited with my FAT 6102 NOKIA phone were taking over.When asked the people there said "yahan NAHEE HAI YAHA MADAM" !!!!Now I got the dirty feeling that the thing that we saw and laughed about while parking the car over it well may just be MY PHONE & IT WAS.I was this close to getting my cell back but NAH -the curse!!!


i had dropped it while gettin inside the car!!! n came n parked right BANG ON the --U GUESSED :)))




3rd time i lost it--well it was stolen--i was travelling in a PMT aftr ages and I thot I saw a suspicious woman but i ignored my hunch my 6th sense, my beautiful mind!phewww i shudn hav-n cud have saved my cell AND MY WALLET !! When i got off I realised that woman had pushed me while getting off the bus and done this misdeed of robbing me while agitating me by pushing me-she took my mind off my bag!how cheap..this reminds me of an incident where I LOST MY WALLET years ago while getting in the bus to pune but found it :) will tell u bout that later.


By the way when my cell & wallet were stolen I had a rucksack on my back and like the biggest fool on earth I was carrying a small purse in which I kept only my cell and my wallet--like a silly showoff-it was bought by Rohan from Singapore .Let me describe the purse -it was small and like a rectangle and didnt have a chain :) cute naa and I kept only and only my wallet and cell in it --HOLLYROCKAMOLLY!


FROM THAT DAY ON I LEARNT TO DRIVE HAHAHAHAHAHAHA WEll at least somthing positive came out of that!


;)